tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post842429414917848342..comments2023-09-09T09:33:05.892-06:00Comments on Betcha Didn't See This Coming: No Safe PlaceTammy Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04110396499164449495noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-78370286559670375992010-08-13T10:59:23.796-05:002010-08-13T10:59:23.796-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04284958455638347713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-56390339406064899882010-08-13T10:57:54.492-05:002010-08-13T10:57:54.492-05:00situation my ass. more like a choice.
I'm not...situation my ass. more like a choice.<br /><br />I'm not getting into that on here, beside the only thing you have to ask yourself is which one do I love and wont more (TAMMY or my WIFE and KIDS)<br /><br />which one is more important to you?Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04284958455638347713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-8208170811228150162010-08-12T14:19:55.133-05:002010-08-12T14:19:55.133-05:00I shouldn't even reply to this, but i can'...I shouldn't even reply to this, but i can't let stand the false accusation that i do not speak openly, frankly, and respectfully to you off-line. It is never me who attacks, never me who insults, never me who says things that have no other purpose than to cause pain.<br /><br />I explain to you in the most patient details what my situation is, how I feel, and how I care. I've explained all this to you more times than I can count in the last year.<br /><br />And in all this I have not, except on a couple of VERY rare occasions while i was being attacked, said the first harsh word to you, or disrespected your feelings, or tried to shame or insult you into caving in to my position.<br /><br />Which is a claim you can't make.<br /><br />The reason you deny this is because you refuse to hear any explanation, any reason, any logic, that doesn't amount to "You are right, I am wrong, and I surrender to your will"<br /><br />Until and unless I say THAT, nothing else I say to you will sound kind, or caring, or even logical.<br /><br />For instance, you keep beating the "why didn't you do this before?" drum - even though I have patiently explained to you dozens of times that I am here, in this mess (and you are too) BECAUSE I took the advice and counsel of people who believe like yourself who told me I could be healed of this.<br /><br />You propose to find me guilty because I took the advice and counsel of hundreds of men (and by extension women) who gave their lives to serve the God you believe in. You are saying my failure is that I believed what the people of God (so called) told me was true.<br /><br />Was that a mistake? Oh hell yes. Was it one I could reasonably have been expected to avoid? Not so much.<br /><br />and you know this. but it doesn't move the decision towards the outcome you desperately want, so every time I explain it, or point it out - you ignore it. which, I guess, you are entitled to do. But just because you ignore it does NOT mean you can make the claim I have never talked to you about this the way I speak of it online.<br /><br />Nothing has been said here that hasn't been said to you first (about what this is and what it means).<br /><br />I admit there's a lot that I feel, and could say, that discussion of doesn't really help the relationship that I've bit my tongue about - some of it for 20 years. But none of that has been broadcast on line - if I'm not willing to say it to you I'm not willing say it here or anywhere else publicly.Tammy Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110396499164449495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-72522365321355220682010-08-12T11:10:19.179-05:002010-08-12T11:10:19.179-05:00ass chew out!! if you would talk to me like you ta...ass chew out!! if you would talk to me like you talk to the people on here it might be different.<br /><br />you knew how when you did this what it would do to this marriage and family and you didn't.<br /><br />So please don't come on here and keep saying how much you care about me or how I feel if you cared so much than you would stop this shit before you lose the family you have left.<br /><br />I nor my kid needs just a friendship or a roommate.they need their DAD and I need my HUSBAND.<br /><br />This weren't so important for you to deal with it before you had a family than that's should tell you something.<br />Are the boys and me not important enough for you to stop all this for (please don't say you can't nobody is forcing you to do this)<br /><br />Let us be enough and important enough for you and stop this.doesn't this family matter to you anymore or did it ever.<br /><br />I wouldn't come on here with all this but you won't talk to me any other way.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04284958455638347713noreply@blogger.com