tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post4260841851355794534..comments2023-09-09T09:33:05.892-06:00Comments on Betcha Didn't See This Coming: Still HereTammy Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04110396499164449495noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-18530310055467358642010-02-19T20:34:50.675-06:002010-02-19T20:34:50.675-06:00Oh yes, I'm sure. I'm not under any illusi...Oh yes, I'm sure. I'm not under any illusion really. I'm really just trying to protect her sanity right now. either she will adjust to the idea of losing "him" or get used to knowing her. But it can't happen all at once, she can't stand the mental strain.<br /><br />(add to that the fact that her hormones have gone off there nut to, hot and cold flashes and all the usual other stuff including mood swings)Tammy Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110396499164449495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-63042424214421581672010-02-19T00:33:26.128-06:002010-02-19T00:33:26.128-06:00The fact of the matter is, neither of you can be w...The fact of the matter is, neither of you can be what you aren't...she can't be gay and you can't be male. You have lived the lie and know it to be unteneble. You have to know in the end, that will be true for her as well. <br /><br />Sometimes, the greatest thing love can do is let go. And honestly, I think both of you know that the only place this can end is friendship or acrimony. If she has never been attracted to women before, she probably never will be...no matter how much she loves you. <br /><br />I'm sorry, and hate saying it, but really think about how you felt playing a part that didn't fit. You are both fooling yourselves if you think faking it will make things better...it won't. It will eat away at the good that is still between you until it dies. Deception is a tool of Satan...even when it's yourself.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366665248363057001noreply@blogger.com