tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post1985261452697296241..comments2023-09-09T09:33:05.892-06:00Comments on Betcha Didn't See This Coming: SacraficeTammy Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04110396499164449495noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-30398508060875812282010-08-10T16:03:37.680-05:002010-08-10T16:03:37.680-05:00Their is no such person
If you wanted to be a wom...Their is no such person<br /><br />If you wanted to be a woman you should have done it before you had a family,which you didn't so live with it and be a manUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04284958455638347713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-10349087386648363702010-05-26T20:33:55.210-05:002010-05-26T20:33:55.210-05:00I'm sorry, Laura.
I really doubt delaying th...I'm sorry, Laura. <br /><br />I really doubt delaying the inevitable is going to help. False hope and giving in to emotional blackmail may just intensify the blackmail the next time you try to be yourself. <br /><br />You are as important as your wife is. And honestly, letting her clutch at an imaginary "man" isn't really doing her any favors.LadyTraycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07050276766565958522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-78446537182787053122010-04-11T18:12:09.672-05:002010-04-11T18:12:09.672-05:00To be clear, and this might take an edit, as far a...To be clear, and this might take an edit, as far as i am concerned "Laura" is still very much front and center. This is not me being Gerry again, this is Laura being a bit more "butch."<br /><br />Real women have to lay aside the frill and the lace every day to drive a truck or work on a farm or in a factory, real women often see no need for makeup today. <br /><br />So for while, I'll be one of those girls even if it's not my first choice.<br /><br />What I really feel I'm losing here is that for a lot of people, I'm not in the club anymore - I'm not "one of the girls"<br /><br />That was one of the most precious things about transitioning and it's a hard thing to lose even a little bit of.Tammy Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110396499164449495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-13062239949194840752010-04-11T16:35:47.947-05:002010-04-11T16:35:47.947-05:00Love..........overcomes everything ONLY if we, the...Love..........overcomes everything ONLY if we, the vehicles of that LOVE allows it. You, by LOVE are allowing Laura NOT to be Laura anymore for "now" and yes, this takes great sacrafice on your part. But, out of sacrafice comes bliss I think? In time, things WILL meet up exactly where they should. I have to believe this for you or else my eyes will be crying bucket size tears for you right now because I can only imagine the pain you AND your wife must be going through at this point.<br /><br />I wish I knew what to say, but truth is, I don't. I, from a PERSONAL stand-point believe that to with-hold one's TRUE self is to with-hold a gift for no one else can BE you. <br /><br />Male or female does not matter, it's the art of being YOURSELF that matters. People wear mask every day, refusing to be who they really are and goodness help those that have the guts to remove the mask and say out loud, "Hey, this is ME!"<br /><br />You and your family are in my thoughts. I know the town you live in and I know the closed minds of those that walk not by light, but by weak bulbs. <br /><br />Stay strong.Ansonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07713019379680774914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-60482647025577337062010-04-11T02:11:19.439-05:002010-04-11T02:11:19.439-05:00I don't see any freedom here. Unless she reall...I don't see any freedom here. Unless she really does come to accept me in the coming months.<br /><br />But at the moment, freedom can't be my priority.Tammy Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110396499164449495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6835022619998310349.post-25448133488492329172010-04-11T00:13:45.283-05:002010-04-11T00:13:45.283-05:00Thank you Gerry for thinking of yr family 1st as i...Thank you Gerry for thinking of yr family 1st as it should be...this is what makes u who u r.....this will give u freedom...jordanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15479284745830166159noreply@blogger.com